Family Care, Addictions & Trauma-Informed Counselling
Recovery isn't about reinventing yourself. It's about reclaiming the person you've always been, and finding your way to a safe harbour of your making.
"Recovery is a voyage, not a destination. We help you find your bearings, weather the squalls, and navigate toward something you might not yet have a name for, though home has a nice ring to it."
Addiction is never an individual illness. It reshapes every relationship in the family system. Healing works best when the whole herd is tended.
Sustainable recovery goes beyond symptom management. It requires understanding and healing the underlying wounds with patience, and persistence, not prescription.
Clinical training and personal lived experience together. What works in the textbook is deepened by having navigated many a storm and rough sea myself.
No two courses through recovery are identical. Whether you are an individual seeking change or a family member trying to understand a loved one's addiction, there is a place for you here.
A six-week structured programme for family members who have become collateral damage of a loved one's addiction. You matter. Your pain is valid. Your healing is essential.
Flexible 4, 8 or 12-week programmes tailored to your unique recovery needs, blending clinical modalities with time-tested 12-step wisdom; only what works for you.
A recovery modality for individuals who've completed treatment and are ready to reintegrate slowly and safely into a life with meaning. Taking the wheel back, one day at a time.
The taboo topic many programmes fail to address. Whether you are grieving a person, a relationship, or a version of yourself, let's talk. Or not. But let's do it together.
"To maintain hope in spite of tragic experiences, one must learn the courage and tenacity to strive for a future goal, no matter how bleak."
Viktor Frankl
Drawing from my own voyage and on my formal training in addictions and family care counselling, I help individuals and families navigate the often unsettling waters of recovery. I know what it is to be lost at sea, and I know the relief that comes when one seeks and finds their safe harbour.
Meet David"You don't have to wait for your loved one to get sober to begin your own healing voyage."
Family members are not bystanders. They are participants in the recovery story, and they deserve their own support, understanding, and hope.
CCAC, RSSW, Psychotherapist,
Family Care | Addictions | Trauma-Informed Counselling
Drawing from my life's voyage, my education, and my professional training, I help families and individuals seeking recovery from addiction and mental health challenges find their way to a safe harbour.
My primary framework is the Integrative Model of Addiction and Recovery, which recognises that no single theory fully captures the complexity of addiction or the many courses toward healing. Rather than adhering rigidly to one school of thought, I draw on five complementary models, selecting and weaving together what best serves each individual and family.
The Disease Model
Addiction is not a character flaw. It is a complex brain condition with biological underpinnings, and understanding it as such is essential to removing shame from the room. Dr. Gabor Maté's work sits at the heart of this model for me, particularly his framing of addiction as a response to pain rather than a pursuit of pleasure. This model informs how I work with relapse, which I view not as moral failure but as clinical information that helps us better understand what the person still needs.
The Psychological Model
Addiction rarely exists in isolation. Beneath it, there is almost always unprocessed trauma, unmet need, or a story the person has been telling themselves for a very long time. Bessel van der Kolk's research on how the body holds trauma shapes how I approach this work, alongside Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) for restructuring unhelpful thought patterns, Dialectical Behaviour Therapy (DBT) skills for emotional regulation, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) for developing psychological flexibility, Motivational Interviewing (MI) to honour each person's own readiness for change, and Narrative Therapy to help clients become the authors, rather than the subjects, of their own story. Dr. Irvin Yalom's existential approach also informs this space, particularly in group work, where themes of belonging, mortality, freedom, and meaning arise naturally and powerfully.
The Social Model
Addiction is shaped by environment, and recovery happens in relationship. Family Systems Therapy is my primary tool here, guided by the understanding that the family is not a bystander to addiction but a living part of its ecosystem. When the system shifts, the individual within it is given new room to change. Peer support, community, and psychoeducational group work also belong to this model, each of which I have delivered extensively in both residential and community settings.
The moral and spiritual Model
Spiritual transformation and personal accountability are not relics of a bygone era. For many people, they are the very foundation of lasting recovery. The 12-step tradition lives here, as does Viktor Frankl's understanding of meaning as a healing force. I draw on Frankl not as a practitioner of formal Logotherapy, but because his insight that we can bear almost anything when we understand why we are bearing it is among the most useful ideas in recovery work. Finding meaning in the story of one's suffering is often the first step toward rewriting it.
The Biopsychosocial Model
This is where the previous four converge. No single model holds the whole truth, and the most effective recovery work weaves them together. Mindfulness-based approaches live here too, bridging the body, mind, and relational world in a way that supports both insight and regulation. This integrative view is not a compromise between frameworks; it is an acknowledgment that human beings are too complex, and too worthy, to be reduced to any single one.
My practice is grounded in trauma-informed care, evidence-based methods, and spiritual healing; a balance that goes beyond managing symptoms to understanding and healing the underlying causes that brought someone here.
I practise holistically, empowering families and individuals to reclaim wholeness, mentally, emotionally, and spiritually. Recognising that addiction is a systemic issue affecting everyone connected to the person suffering, we focus on the whole family to create an environment for sustainable healing and lasting change.
I came to this work through my own voyage. That lived experience is not separate from my clinical practice; it is woven through every session. I have sat where my clients sit. I understand the weight of it, the work of it, and the hope for a life with meaning and purpose.
That said, I will never presume to know what you are feeling. Your pain, your challenges, and your path to recovery are yours and yours alone, as is the course you plot toward a life of your own choosing.
My connection to the Renascent community, first as an alumnus and then as a Family Care and Addictions Counsellor, shaped my understanding of recovery as a family illness that requires a family response.
I hold my RSSW Psychotherapist designation and practise in accordance with the OCSWSSW Code of Ethics. My clinical experience includes addictions counselling, family systems therapy, and trauma-informed individual and group work across both residential and community settings, attained through my practicum and work at Renascent, first as a Continuing Care Counsellor and then as a Family Care Counsellor, and concurrently as an Addictions and Mental Health Counsellor at Transition House.
I have extensive experience with psychoeducational group formats for families affected by addiction, drawing on the frameworks of Dr. Gabor Maté, Bessel van der Kolk, Viktor Frankl, and Dr. Irvin D. Yalom, alongside the time-tested wisdom of the 12-step tradition.
An ancient Chinese proverb says that a journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step. True; yet I think of recovery more as a voyage. A voyage begins in one port of call, and with luck, billowed sails, a fine ship and crew to help weather storms, squalls, monsters, rocks, and low tides, we find our way to safe harbour. There we re-provision and head out once more in search of new discoveries.
If you are ready to take the helm, I would be delighted to handle the sextant as your navigator.
I offer a complimentary 20-minute discovery call to help us determine whether working together is the right fit for you or your family.
Book a Discovery CallSome of these ideas are mine. Many belong to thinkers I trust: clinicians, philosophers, storytellers. All of them shape the way I work with families and individuals in recovery.
According to an ancient Chinese proverb, "A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step." True; yet I think of recovery more as a voyage. A voyage begins in one port of call, and with luck, billowed sails, and a fine ship and crew to help weather storms, squalls, monsters, rocks, and low tides, we find our way to a safe harbour.
There we re-provision and head out once more in search of new discoveries that may lead to contentment and perhaps even joy.
"If you are ready to take the helm, I would be delighted to handle the sextant as your navigator."
David RussellAlice came to a fork in the road. "Which road do I take?" she asked. "Where do you want to go?" responded the Cheshire Cat. "I don't know." Alice answered. "Then," said the cat, "it doesn't matter."
Lewis Carroll, Alice in WonderlandIn recovery, clarity of direction matters profoundly. Without a sense of where we are going, we will end up somewhere, but where, and why? Working together to develop your S.M.A.R.T. goal-setting strategy will empower you to become the writer of your own future story.
Recovery and life require understanding where we have been, being present for where we are, and having clear intention about where we are going. We often hear that we can only live for today - that yesterday is past and tomorrow is not yet written.
While wallowing in past failures is not helpful, there is real value in carefully examining why we did not achieve our goals, often disappointing ourselves and others. Similarly, while tomorrow truly is not yet written, without a clear course plotted, we will end up somewhere, but not necessarily where we wanted to be.
It is never too late to be what you might have been.
There are as many definitions for addiction as there are addictions. These are the two I have found most useful - the ones I return to most often in my practice.
Addiction doesn't just affect the individual. It profoundly impacts every member of the family unit; the emotional, psychological, and relational toll can be overwhelming. That's why our Family Care programmes are designed to support all family members, whether you're a parent, sibling, child, significant other, or close friend.
Addiction is a family disease. And recovery is a family opportunity.
You don't have to wait for your loved one to get sober to begin your own healing voyage. Your recovery matters, and you deserve support, understanding, and hope.
One of the frameworks I draw on in family work is Internal Family Systems (IFS), developed by Dr. Richard Schwartz. IFS sees the mind as made up of different "parts," each shaped by experience and trying, in its own way, to protect us. Guiding them is a compassionate core called the Self, which is always present even when life has made it hard to access. In sessions, we explore the parts that often surface in family life: the Managers holding everything together, the Firefighters reacting when things feel out of control, and the Exiles carrying older, unspoken hurts. No part is seen as the problem. When family members begin to understand what is happening inside themselves, understanding each other tends to follow.
See Family Programs"Every family has a story. Every member of that story deserves to be seen."
The impact of addiction varies significantly depending on one's role within the family system. Every experience is valid. Every family member deserves support.
Navigating broken trust, codependency, relationship trauma, and the impossible question of when to help, and when stepping back becomes the most loving act.
Processing guilt, enabling patterns, and learning the delicate distinction between advocating for your child and inadvertently prolonging their suffering.
Understanding confusion and abandonment, developing healthy boundaries, and finding language for experiences that were never supposed to be yours to carry.
Managing resentment, complex family dynamics, and the grief that comes from watching a family member you love disappear into their addiction.
Understanding what helping actually looks like, and what it does not, and how to support without enabling patterns that keep the cycle turning.
Healing doesn't happen in isolation. Individual recovery works best when it includes honest attention to the family system from which addiction grew.
Families develop their own adaptive patterns and trauma responses over time. Roles shift. Communication changes. Trust erodes. Children learn to walk on eggshells long before they understand why.
The family does not cause addiction, but it is profoundly affected by it, and it plays a meaningful role in the recovery ecosystem. Our Family Care programmes create space for every member of the herd to understand, heal, and re-find their footing.
Recovery is possible. Relationships can be rebuilt. The herd can find its way back together.
"Addiction is not a choice. It emerges from a complex interplay of biology, trauma, and environment, and it heals through connection."
Drawing on Gabor Maté, The Myth of Normal"The body keeps the score. But so does the family. Every member carries some version of the story."
Drawing on Bessel van der KolkJust as no two canoes paddle identical routes to reach safe harbour, each person's recovery voyage is unique. Our programmes honour this individuality whilst providing evidence-based support and time-tested wisdom.
A recovery modality for those who've become collateral damage
Addiction doesn't just affect the individual; it creates ripples throughout the entire family system. Our Family Care Program is specifically designed for family members who feel they have become the collateral damage of a loved one's addiction.
You matter. Your pain is valid. Your healing is essential.
This six-week structured curriculum educates families about addiction, recovery, and the emotional challenges that accompany them, blending proven therapeutic frameworks with an environment of genuine empathetic support.
Tailored support for personal change
Our individual programmes are specifically tailored to each client's unique recovery needs and circumstances. We understand that what works for one person may not work for another, which is why we offer a flexible blend of clinically proven modalities designed to meet you exactly where you are.
No imposed therapies. No one-size-fits-all prescriptions. A personalised treatment plan that respects your preferences, your history, and your readiness for change.
A recovery modality for the voyage home
Day Tripping is designed for the individual who has completed a treatment programme and desires additional support navigating a return to daily life, perhaps one with meaning they have not yet found.
Recovery talks about one day at a time, a voyage not a destination, a marathon not a sprint; sometimes it is more of a reclamation - getting to know the person you were before addiction started driving your car and steering you down the wrong road.
In this modality, clients start taking the wheel back and become Day Trippers, learning to navigate the course ahead while not straying too far from the safety of home. Taking in life in smaller doses. Re-inoculating slowly, with support.
"Day Tripper - not just a catchy melody, but a method of tuning in after being tuned out for too long."
David RussellThe taboo topic we must discuss if we are to heal
Many recovery approaches fail to address grief and loss. When we think of losing someone to addiction, mourning feels like a natural human response to what can be tragic circumstances.
Yet overcoming the fear of facing difficult realities is most often achieved when we talk to someone who understands your pain, someone who will never claim to know exactly how you feel or pretend to have simple answers to your sorrow.
True empathy is not minimising another's hurt. It is being able to sit with that person and let them know you are there. Making space for them to talk or remain silent, to cry or not, simply being present without judgement.
So if you are grieving, let's talk. Or not. But let's do it together.
Drawing from meaningful work by Rabbi Steve Leder, David Kessler, and Dr. Brené Brown.
"Recovery is a courageous choice."
Seeking help demonstrates strength, not weakness. Your story is not finished.
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